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5 great tips to fix a broken relationship

Let’s face it, most of us aren’t taught Basic Relationship Skills 101 in school. So we need to improve our skills without the help of our teachers! Here are five simple tips to help you mend some of the problems if your relationship breaks down. Plus, these are great ways to get back on track after a big argument that may still linger on the air.

identify the problem

To start any process it is necessary to identify the problem. If you had a big fight last night, was it just a repeat of past arguments? Did you get that feeling that we’ve said all this before? If so, do you need to find out what the core problem is? Did you really argue about the cat food or is it something deeper there? It may take you some time and a lot of looking inside yourself to find the real problem. However, it will be worth the time if you want to speed up your relationship.

let them know how you feel

Now that you know where things are going wrong, you need to tell your partner how you feel! Not just the casual “You know how much I love you,” but perhaps sharing some of the insights you got from researching your problem. Tell them how that makes you feel. You will receive much more respect if you are willing to be honest and admit your fears and desires. Be sure to always let them know that they are appreciated. You will feel better and so will they if you tell them that you always appreciate having them in your life.

Pay attention

This is a very important component of any relationship. If you really pay attention to what they’re saying during an argument, you might be able to figure out what the point of the fight really is. This gets you much closer to a solution than almost anything else. You should also pay attention to other things your partner says to help you with my next two tips!

small gifts

A small gift that comes from something your partner just mentioned in passing can mean a lot. It shows that you are listening to things that they consider important. It shows that you really care about them. It also shows that you can be trusted to remember things that are close to both of you.

small dates

A little date is a great way to surprise your partner. If you combine it with the tip of paying attention, you could give them a really special moment that they will both remember. A small date doesn’t have to be fancy, maybe you remember he wanted to meet for lunch at a certain new place, or she was thinking it would be fun to learn ice skating sometime. If you really pay attention when your partner talks to you, you will have many great dates!

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