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5 ways to enhance your feminine charm and cast a spell on it

Do you feel like a sensual Empress of Love who knows how to captivate men and leave them hungry for more of your heavenly attention?

Isn’t there something in Angelina Jolie’s eyes and smile that just screams, “I feel you looking at me, and Baby, your attention warms my heart and soul and turns me on in deliciously sexy ways.”

No? Maybe it’s just me.

But I don’t think many would argue that Angelina is an empress of sensual love. She has a “certain heat” and a way of being that is graceful, compassionate, soft and feminine, but also electrically dangerous. All those qualities combined make a recipe for love and lust in the hearts and muzzles of men everywhere.

Although she is beautiful, there are many more beautiful women in my opinion. It’s about how she feels inside of her and how the energy that those feelings create, RADIATES from her. This makes her beauty very special.

Even if you didn’t know about her accomplishments and humanitarian acts, you would probably still be attracted to her and feel her Star Power. She is the most fascinating woman I have ever seen in celebrity circles.

Here are 5 ways YOU can feel like an empress of love and start casting a spell on men everywhere:

First way to enhance your feminine charm: indulge your senses

Part of having Feminine Allure is being a sensual woman. When you are sensitive and easily ENJOY the beauty found in touch, sound, taste, sight, and smell, you effortlessly attract men.

See, men are enchanted by sensual women. They make men comfortable, curious about something foreign to them, and highly aroused. (A man gets turned on when we are sensual because sex involves all your senses and your sensuality makes them think about sex.)

In today’s society, we are bombarded with the pollution of our senses. There is so much energy from traffic, construction and hustle and bustle around us that it makes us sleepy. We lose touch with our bodies and feelings because we are over stimulated by the modern world.

Have you ever gone to the field and felt refreshed afterwards? Have you ever stopped eating salt for a while and suddenly you can taste things more acutely?

Start getting really good with your senses and find ways to enjoy poetry in life:

  • Buy pretty, fragrant flowers at the local market to place by your bed.
  • Go to expensive beauty stores and smell luxurious perfume oils. (Maybe even buy a bottle and dab a little behind your ear at night.)
  • Make a sandwich with warm, fresh bread and quality meats from a gourmet deli.
  • Listen to baroque music on free internet radio while you send an email.

Treat your senses. It will make you slow down automatically and enjoy the moment. Your heart will smile and a smiling heart INVITES men to play and laugh with you.

Second way to enhance your feminine charm: pamper your body

I know it’s hard to eat right, exercise, and remember to moisturize after every shower, but try to do ONE beautiful thing for your body every day.

See, being good to your body changes the way you feel about your sex appeal. It also raises your level of happiness.

It makes you jump through the aisles of the market, instead of shuffling. She makes you touch your silky clean hair in a sexy way instead of scratching your oily scalp when you are anxious. She makes you open up to a man’s touches instead of cringing with “I don’t want to be touched” energy…

Ways to pamper your body:

  • Take a dance class.
  • Buy a watermelon and enjoy every healthy, juicy, sweet and refreshing bite.
  • Rub on a little baby oil after you shower and BEFORE you towel dry.
  • Take a hot bubble bath with some delicious bath salts.
  • Give yourself a spa pedicure or ask your man to give you a back rub with some oils.
  • Make sure your bed sheets smell like fresh linen and are high thread count and then sleep naked.
  • Spend money on quality shampoos and conditioners.

Third way to enhance your feminine charm: breathe

When you start your day and end your night with a few minutes of deep, relaxed breathing, you are relieving tension in your body and allowing stress to escape. You are assimilating the life force that surrounds you and connecting with it.

The breath quiets your mind and opens your heart. This equates to fewer fears and insecurities and more loving energy for your life and relationships.

Remember to breathe during sex too. It relaxes your body and allows you to enjoy a man’s touch. It also invites a greater emotional connection.

The next time you’re in bed with your man, focus on your breathing. Tell yourself that with each inhalation you are INVITING it into your heart and with each exhalation you are PUSHING OUT the fears and anxieties that surround love and closeness.

You can be overwhelmed with emotion and it’s so beautiful for a man when his vulnerable emotions are released during sex.

Fourth way to enhance your feminine charm: Feel that playful buzz of new love and lust

When new love strikes like lightning or we’re longing for a great lover and can’t stop thinking about the way he touches us, we’re giving off pheromones. We feel great inside…and so do all the male scent glands within a ten-foot radius.

It is not difficult to recreate that feeling of new love or carnal desire for a few minutes of your day. You just have to know your triggers and know how to relax enough to let them work for you.

Triggers can be:

  • Romantic novels or fantasizing about old loves.
  • Silky clothes that caress your skin in a certain way that gives you goosebumps and excites your nerve endings.
  • daily masturbation
  • intense cardio exercise
  • Great jazz or rock music (think of which song you’d get naked to on a fantasy amateur strip night.

Find a way to feel playful and flutter on the inside whenever you’re anxious, depressed, or even bored. It will really help prevent depression and it’s actually a healthy way to expel anger… If you’re angry and then get excited, that anger turns into safe, warm, feisty energy in your body. (Normally, it can turn into dark, brittle, self-loathing, and violent thoughts in your mind that lead to great stiffness in your body.)

Fifth Way to Enhance Your Feminine Charm: Empower Yourself Through Journal Writing

Write down your strengths as a woman that men adore.

Writing empowering mantras and self-descriptions makes them more concrete. It allows us to believe and remember them more than if we leave them as passing thoughts. Turn dream self-images into META self-images.

Write adjectives that describe your unique feminine charm. Are you seductive, witty, mysterious, daring and sulfuric?

Make the ‘If I were an animal exercise‘ and ask yourself, “If my feminine side were an animal, what would it be?”

Choose something sexy and dangerous like a black widow spider that gently lures unassuming men with its fragile elegance and nimble touch. Give it a name like Sardinia the Spider.


Choose something soft, sweet, cuddly and adorable like a fluffy white bunny who knows how to snuggle up and melt the hearts of men everywhere.

Don’t judge him as immature and silly, just allow yourself to have fun!

Open your imagination and let your mind fuel your confidence and awaken your feminine power. Very often our minds lead us to negative thoughts that kill our confidence in ourselves and in men. If you can allow your thoughts to be creative and silly, it will help you feel freer to be more playful, confident, and light-hearted with men.

It will also enhance your feisty and rowdy side and have you write under fictitious aliases. Some of mine are Debbie Dare-to-Love-Me McDaniels, the wild, free-spirited outlaw who wears red lipstick and ripped pantyhose or Brenda Breathless, a modern day femme fatale whose cleavage pierces men’s hearts like an AK47.

Be creative, don’t take yourself too seriously, and let your imagination dictate where you take your pen on the page. Dare to HAVE FUN thinking and writing about how attractive you are to the opposite sex.


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