Looking for some ideas to spice up your sex life? Here are five super sexual tips for trying things with your partner that are sure to get the passion flowing.

1. Visit a swingers club. Bet you didn’t think we’d release this one first. The fact is that swingers clubs are not intimidating places at all and you certainly don’t need to do anything if you don’t want to. Nor will there be rampant sex in your face everywhere; most have a bar or relaxation area, with the ‘action’ out of sight. You’ll meet some friendly people, and at the very least, it’ll give you some new things to talk about in your bedroom at home!
2. Try outdoor sex. A secluded beach or forest can be a great place to have fun sex. Just grab a blanket or two and find a place where you won’t be disturbed, although the thought of being ‘discovered’ can add to the excitement of the adventure.
3. Make your next vacation ‘clothing optional’. Nude beach resorts are gaining popularity, and for good reason. They can really add a sensual touch to your holiday in the sun. Most are couples-only (or at least adults-only), so you don’t need to worry about gawking teenagers or strange men making you uncomfortable. Many people, once they’ve tried skinny dipping, never wear bathing suits again!
4. Watch an erotic movie together. I don’t mean porn, but rather ‘soft’ erotica that you can rent at your local movie library. There are some fantastically sexy movies that have unfortunately been overlooked since the flood of hardcore porn on the internet.
5. Talk about your fantasies when you make love. While you’re already aroused during sex, it’s a good time to drop your inhibitions completely and tell your lover about your deepest sexual fantasies. Every healthy adult with an active sex life has fantasies, so there is nothing to be ashamed of. Even if you are a bit shy, you will be surprised how well your lover responds and who knows, it could be the start of new sexual adventures for both of you to explore together.

Really exploring the limits of your sexual relationship with your lover can go a long way toward strengthening the loving bond between you. Push a little beyond your comfort zone and you never know, it could open up a whole new world of excitement.