This is what a hypothetical discussion between a sugar daddy and his sugar baby would look like (the first few minutes after the topic “sugar” has been brought up anyway)

The D:

So honey, what makes you want to be in a relationship like this? (Please don’t say you want a walking ATM, okay?)

Is this your first experience of this kind? If not, how many other similar relationships have you had?

How long did those relationships last and how did they end?

What kind of agreement did you have with the other person?

The SB:

So sugar daddy, what exactly does the word sugar mean to you?

How do you see this type of ‘setup’ working and how often would you like to meet? How much time do you have to pamper and pamper your sugar baby?

How did similar arrangements work that you may have had in the past? How often did you see her and why/how did you break up?

By having these basic questions answered, you will know what you are getting into and what experience the other party has. This way, you can move on if you think it’s not right for you. Or, if you decide to stay, you know what to expect. It is always better to have at least one person who is experienced in ‘sugar’, this way it is not the blind leading the blind, but at least one person can take control of the situation.