It can be really frustrating when you really love your wife but she doesn’t want to have sex with you. If this is the problem she’s facing right now, you’re definitely not alone. There are many married men who are also facing the same problem.

In fact, I used to face the same problem. Fortunately, I managed to figure out what went wrong over time.

Don’t jump to conclusion

When faced with this difficult situation, some men may find themselves saying ‘she doesn’t love me anymore’.

However, it is important not to jump to conclusions. Just because your wife doesn’t want to have sex with you doesn’t mean she doesn’t want you anymore.

The key is to figure out why he doesn’t want to have sex with you. Jumping to a conclusion or trying to read your wife’s mind will not help the marriage or improve the situation.

Don’t Leave Him Alone – It May Damage Your Marriage

Other men may decide to do nothing about it or just let ‘nature take its course’. Unfortunately, for these types of situations, nature is probably not going to take the course you want.

Therefore, it is important that you do something about it. Lack of sex and intimacy can damage a marriage.

Why doesn’t your wife want to make love?

There are a few possible reasons why your wife doesn’t want to make love. Let’s take a look at them now.

1. BabyFactor

If your wife has just given birth, your sexual desire will be at its lowest point. This is perfectly normal. At this time, all her attention will be on her newborn.

Although this factor is quite obvious, some men are not aware of it. I have seen men complain about not having sex for 2 months after delivery. That’s why I decided to talk about this ‘obvious’ factor.

If this is the situation you are facing, don’t worry. His wife’s sexual desire should return in a few months.

2. Your wife does not enjoy sex with you but does not tell you

This is a more serious problem that needs to be addressed as soon as possible. Generally, a woman will not directly tell her husband that she does not enjoy sex with him. That’s why many women fake orgasm in the first place.

Women hate faking an orgasm, but they do it because they don’t want to hurt their husband’s feelings. If your wife doesn’t enjoy sex with you and she doesn’t tell you, it’s because she loves you and she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.

On the other hand, she is not enjoying the experience. That’s why she doesn’t want to make love.