In the past, when someone had a second wedding, it was a simple event. However, second weddings are now occurring more frequently and have become more accepted, actually making some second wedding ceremonies larger celebrations than first ones.

Keeping your eyes focused on the details of second weddings, such as the reason for the wedding, the location, the decorations, and the program, will help make this a special and memorable event. Handling these particular details will ensure special memories that you will treasure forever.

At second weddings, many soon-to-be-married couples have children from a previous relationship. When this is true, it is recommended that couples meet the children alone first to tell them about the engagement, before any other family members or friends. This way, children won’t feel self-conscious if they want to ask questions, since there are no other people around. This is the right time to consider your input. Second weddings are usually less of a problem if the children can share their opinions. Once the children know about the engagement, you can inform the parents of the bride and groom, siblings, and friends.

Guests at second weddings are not expected to give wedding gifts. In almost all cases, couples entering their second marriage already have two of everything and do not want anything extra in their home as two families will be joining. You should not accept any gifts, but ask that people donate to a charity in honor of the couple.

Second weddings are a great way to involve children in the wedding ceremony or wedding reception. They can take on the role of bridesmaids or groomsmen, flower girls or ring bearers, or they can serve as ushers. If they want, they can sing, read poetry or light a candle during the ceremony.

Keeping these tips in mind when planning a second wedding will ensure that couples and their newly expanded families start off on the right foot, while creating memories that will last a lifetime.