I guess you’re here because you met a cool guy, got his number, but now you don’t know what text to send! You think to yourself, I want him to be more attracted to me, but I feel uncomfortable texting him. How do I get him to follow me around like a lost puppy instead of desperately waiting for the next text from him. Here are a couple of good texts to send a guy to keep him interested and create a crazy attraction.

Text messages that ask for a response

Hey, yesterday I heard something interesting about you.

It was nice talking to you last night, but I’m curious about something…

Are you always like this? (something funny if there is no context)

Nice to meet you the other day, by the way, for an athlete you’re a bit smart.

All of the above stimulate his curiosity or just make him want to text you. Stuff like this is great for sparking a conversation with a guy you want to text right away. Once you’ve got the conversation flowing, you can move on to the next stage and start applying bratty/playful behavior.

Create attraction by being Bratty/Playful

I like guys like you, but I wish you were a little taller! (He is 6’5″)

I think you should hurry up and ask me out, I saw your best friend looking at me… (His best friend is gay)

With bratty/playful you are driving interest and then driving it away. A very simple example when texting a guy would be, “Wow, you’re hot! Hahaha, but don’t worry, you’re not my type…” While this isn’t terribly clever, it still leaves the target off. of balance, and almost forces them to respond.

The idea is to play a little with the boy, show your intelligence but with class. We don’t take cheap shots, but smart ones. We want to be the elusive fish that he really wants to catch. Here is an example of a full text conversation with brat/playful:

Him: Hi Jackie, what are you doing on Saturday?

You: why are you asking me out? Because if so, I’m not sure.

He hears! What is that supposed to mean?

You: Well, you’re hot and all… but you seem like a potential stalker.

Him: Hahaha, I suppose as a police officer, you would expect that.

You: You’re right, but if you’re asking me out I have a request

Him: Oh no, now I’m scared.

You: you should be

The fact that? You are not going to tell me?

You: Are you asking me out?

Him: Yes, I’m officially inviting you to dinner.

You: Sounds great, but don’t get the wrong idea, I’m really just using you to get out of parking tickets.

This was a great text to send to a really playful, slippery, bratty guy. You were buzzing around him and he couldn’t pin you down. Now feel a great curiosity to know what it is that motivates you. You were so much wittier and more interesting than him, and he wants to get the power back from him! Well played, and I hope he shows up for the date in uniform!

Make him ask you out via text message

When texting a guy I would be very cautious about asking him out, the woman who can pull this off without losing power is rare. I know you think this should be totally acceptable, but it’s not!

Have you ever heard the expression “men chase women until she catches him”? Do you see the truth here? You are not a boy, you are not the pursuer, even if you really like him. Rather, you allow it, you lure it in, and you trick it into pursuing you. Then you catch it! You are the bait and the trap, and you must learn to move the bait. However, sometimes he is allowed to tell her what to do when she texts him, for example:

You: Jack, I want to go to that new French restaurant near your house. I’m free next Friday.

Jack: Hahaha, that was abrupt, why don’t you ask me out?

You: It doesn’t work like that, I also refuse to drive, buy you flowers or open the door for you.

Jack: Okay, okay! I give up. I would love your company this Friday at Pierre Le Fran

You: Well done, I’ll have to double check my schedule, but I think I can include you.

Jack: Killing me girl, see you soon.

A more subtle approach:

Jack: What kind of food do you like?

You: I love French food!

Jack: Hey, did you know there’s a new French restaurant near my house? (Yes of course you knew)

You: Ah… I think I’ve heard of that place, it sounds great, I wanted to go but I don’t have anyone to go with (You better get the damn hint but some guys are dumb or just afraid of rejection)

Jack: I’d love to take you, when are you free?

You: Friday would be perfect

There are many ways to do this, but your text still needs to be perceived as your idea or you’re robbing him of the opportunity to be a man. Not only that, but every time you feel needy with a man, you will go from relationship potential to just sexual. It’s not a place you want to be.