Remote control vibrators aren’t just for couples sex – they’re also perfect for kinky power exchange scenes. From butt plugs to egg vibes and strap-on cock rings, these toys let you relinquish control for a no-hands orgasm.

Our panel found these remote options to be simple to use and quiet enough for discreet public play. They also offer strong vibrations that stimulate the clit and G-spot while remaining whisper-quiet.

1. Lelo Lyla

The sexy little Lelo Lyla is the ultimate kinky-public-play toy. It’s a small bullet vibrator that can be controlled with the remote from up to 39 feet away. It has six pre-programmed patterns and 16 speeds that range from teasing thrumming to rumbling waves. Plus, it’s almost silent, making it a perfect choice for kinky solo play or raunchy couple’s play.

It also comes with two SenseMotion Technology modes. The controller vibrates proportionally to what the toy is feeling, so both users get an experience. It’s fully lockable for discreet traveling, completely waterproof and rechargeable with a premium smooth silicone design.

The toy and remote come in a very nice box that is tastefully decorated and easy on the eyes for prying co-workers or roommates. It includes a toy, charger, brooch, user manual and a sample of Lelo’s own personal lubricant. It’s a toy that you can even take into the shower, which opens up a whole new world of pleasure. It’s definitely one of the best remote vibrators on the market right now.

2. VeDO Kiwi

The Kiwi is a little smaller than some other egg-shaped vibrators but it’s mighty powerful. It has 10 vibration modes to explore, a sleek remote control with three easy-to-use buttons and is made of body safe silicone. It’s whisper quiet and fully submersible for bathtub play.

For couples, “the most fun is using a hands-free vibrator with your partner,” says Bisbey. “This allows for a full range of sensations and gives both partners the chance to be creative with how they enjoy their partner.”

A hands-free vibe that can be used with dildos, anal beads or even nipple clamps is a plus, too. “This lets you add to your pleasure and experiment with different textures,” says Bisbey.

Before you take your new remote vibrator out in public, make sure you know how to use it and test its features at home. That way, you can get acquainted with your toy, play, fantasize and learn about its nuances before bringing it out on the town. And don’t forget that all remote-controlled toys should be thoroughly cleaned before resuming use.

3. OhMiBod Fuse

The Fuse is a dual stimulation vibrator that is Bluetooth-enabled and touch-sensitive. It’s also compatible with all of the other Kiiroo products. It has many different modes and can be synced to 2D and VR porn videos and interactive webcam shows.

It’s easy to use and has an impressive range of features. The first press activates the vibrations, while a second presses the touch sensors and a third activates manual mode which allows one to cycle through seven preset vibration patterns.

While this toy can be used solo, it really shines in paired play with a friend or partner. You can also enable long-distance control and sync it to a FeelConnect app that offers a variety of ways to pleasure yourself or another.

It has a sexy look that’s made from body-safe materials and comes with a storage pouch. We recommend lubricating the shafts and clitoral stimulator before using. The toy is splashproof but don’t submerge it. We suggest cleaning it with a toy cleaner or mild soap and storing in a cool place out of direct sunlight.

4. Lush 2

The Lovense Lush 2 is the ultimate hands-free vibrator for solo fun or couples play. It’s made from phthalate-free waterproof silicone that’s body-safe, solid and easy to clean. It comes with two separately functioning arms – one that sends strong vibrations to the g-spot and another that massages the clit.

You can change the toy’s settings from the app for real-time sensual stimulation that’s controlled by you or a partner. It even syncs with music to let you climax to the beat of your favorite sexy song! The Lush 2’s whisper quiet functionality is also great for public play or long-distance kink. It can be worn vaginally or anally and is comfortable even when you wear a panty over it.

The only drawback is that the toy is not rechargeable, which can be a problem if you need it for an extended period of time. However, it’s worth noting that the Lush 2 is very quiet when worn in your vagina. Even on the highest setting, it’s only audible if you’re in a very quiet place.

5. Chorus

If you’re into the idea of handing over control to your partner (or just trying out some kinkier territory), a remote-control vibrator is a great place to start. These toys offer beginner-friendly erogenous zones like nipples and genitals while offering a range of options for those who’ve been at it for a while.

The OhMiBod Club Vibe 3 offers a lot of power and surprise in a discreet package. This wearable vibe can be inserted by both people and has a built-in remote that lets you switch between three different vibration patterns and intensity levels.

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You can use these toys as a couple or solo, and they make for a great way to try out power play while also being “safe,” meaning you can both agree on the “safe words” and “hard limits” that let you know when it’s time to take things down a notch, says accredited gender, relationship, sex, and intimacy therapist Lori Bisbey. But for the most streamlined and hands-free experience, it’s hard to go wrong with an app-controlled vibe. There’s an almost overwhelming number of options out there, from butt plugs to cock rings and strap-ons.